My dad is turning seventy-seven tomorrow folks. He could have died a gazillion times before now, but it is the tumbling of those near-deaths into big life that teaches and recruits me. He makes life feel like open space, warm skin, color and lyrics. Now his spine is crumbling, his legs are weak, his lips are always moving in and out like a rabbit and he’s almost too hard of hearing to comfortably socialize with. Still, it is the life, the interest he has, the way he doesn’t stop growing that somehow dims the many times he might have died. Why does the one time he will die seem impossible to juxtapose against any future then? Where will life go, if he is not there to infuse us with his humble will? I think it may fall asleep with him but I know it will not and I cannot imagine it otherwise.
These past few posts we have talked about “special efforts” for brain illness. We asked, “Is there any treatment you think is too extreme to consider to get brain health?” We have not said the reason we cannot fairly answer.
I don’t know how life will be without Dad; we never know how life will be when our brain is bad and then more bad. It’s hard to tell. We can only imagine and usually our imagination will be wrong anyhow.
Any answer to this question, “Is there treatment you think is too extreme to consider to get brain health?” is shaped by our understanding of what “extreme” means. It changes shape and margins with the degree of brain illness. With each turn, as our disease process exacerbates, so progresses our willingness to believe what is reasonable versus what is “extreme.”
Many of you have told us of your own specifics in your fight for brain health. People do heroic things and I’m thinking you and I might have a bit of a living hero in us. In part, it is the inherent unknown in growth that testifies to life itself.
“Is there treatment that you think is too extreme to consider to get brain health?” I imagine my answer would be, no. Please tell us more about yours. Your view from your degree of extreme helps. Keep talking.
Self-Care Tip – Let the hero in you speak, grow you and testify to life.
- The Healing Brain &Ndash; Forget What You Have Been Told About The Brain (socyberty.com)
- I_Mammal (imammalthebook.com)
- Big Brain, Little Baby (enfamil.com)
- Other Fears of Medication For Brain Illness (friendtoyourself.com)
- Fighting For Brain Health Is At The Core Of Being A Friend To Yourself (friendtoyourself.com)
- Process important to brain development studied in detail (sciencedaily.com)