Self-Care Tip # 85 – When you have problems, find the difference in you.
The best thing I heard today when I was down and out was, “It’s ok to feel that.” What a gift! In one strike, I dumped a load of related concerns because I believed it! I remembered saying that same thing somewhere… to someone(s) else at other times…. 😉 It is good to remember. It is good to be reminded if we can’t. Whatever it takes, just remember or get reminded that it is ok to feel, however we feel. What matters is what we do with our feelings. I owe that to my dear Dad.
Everyone has problems. The difference between you and someone else is what you do with your problems.
How I miss the days of my Dad’s young healthy self. I will always keep his essence and look for him come the new creation. I will know him. He will have a body that speaks his essence materially. He will look like a warm fuzzy I’ve decided.
It was always ok to feel any way I felt around him. He mostly didn’t notice, so he had that going for him. But when he did, he told me these 3 things.
- I wasn’t alone in having problematic feelings.
- They don’t have to be a problem.
- I have a choice of what to do with them.
When a patient comes in with a strangle hold on feelings that have abused them, I think “Alright!” They are making a choice. “Let’s see what they’ll do.”
This morning my husband told me “It’s ok to feel that.” He handed me an invitation to not isolate, to feel but not be in trouble because of it, and to choose what I would do next.
Everyone has problems, after all.
Self-Care Tip #85 – When you have problems, find the difference in you. Be a friend to yourself.
Question: What has been the difference for you? Do your feelings cause you problems? Please tell me your story.
Friend to Yourself 