What is your daytime energy like? Alertness, attention, and memory? Do you sleep well in relation to this?
Please tell your story. Keep on.
Imagine, a young father playing basketball with his buddies on a Sunday in the gym, joking around, slapping each others butts, (because, help us, that’s what they do!) Sweat is rolling down his face. Call him Jake. He’s heavier after three kids, but he’s trying to lose the baby weight. His wife has to wear earplugs to sleep, he sounds so loud in their bed. Jake has been playing hard for about thirty minutes. He’s feeling good. He never lost his touch. He’s with his same buddies from high school. They stay in contact. They’ve got each other’s backs. They’re running down the court. He’s guarding Tom and everyone’s diverted, running, heaving and breathing hard. Tom makes the shot and they’re all slapping each other’s butts. They are throwing the ball back into play and someone laughs at Jake. “Hey Jake! Get up!”
Obstructive Sleep Apnea (OSA) is a leading cause of early heart attack.
I wrote this out in what may seem almost tasteless detail only because this is how it happens. I wish it didn’t and I want it to stop. It is as horrible as you imagine. Jake dies. His wife and gorgeous kids are left to live life without his laughter and counsel and noisy snoring that his wife would do anything to have again. Jake’s community is man-down. Obstructive sleep apnea is a deadly sleep disorder.
CPAP is 99% effective when used to treat OSA. It works. It is just not always the easiest treatment to tolerate for many reasons. But it is worth fighting for. The fight for CPAP might look something like multiple visits to your primary care practitioner to get that referral to go through to your sleep lab. A referral is made, and silence, then made again, silence, then finally by the third or fifth try, it goes through. Or multiple visits to your sleep specialist, exchanging one sleep mask after another and then another until you finally find one that keeps a good seal on your face through the night. There are truly a mountain of barriers to compliance that you will trek across, more barriers than Bilbo encountered heading toward Smaug, and you’ll need as much courage.
Questions: To start with, how is your breathing, or your loved one’s? Did you know that you might have to walk such a circuitous trail toward being your own friend? Who else will do this for you?
Self-Care Tip: When you are deflected, when you get stuck in the moment of loss, pull back into the big picture. You are your own friend and it starts with Me.
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by Sana Johnson-Quijada MD (Author)
In a culture that demands our time, our attention, and our energy 24-7, sleep has gotten a bad reputation. A full night of rest can feel like a weakness, an indulgence, something selfish. But sleep, says Dr. Sana Johnson-Quijada, is critical to our mental and physical health. And when we are not getting enough quality sleep, our lives suffer. Dr. Q explores the reasons why we sabotage healthy sleep patterns, identifies our unique sleep temperaments, and offers practical, positive, and achievable goals for sleeping better. From a daily sleep log to the 12 Rules of Sleep Hygiene, readers will walk away with the motivation and tools to get the rest they need.
When the brain gets sick, what does it look like? Do we grow warts, or turn purple or loose our thumbs? How does our brain say,
Through emotions and behaviors. That’s how.
If we were an internist, a primary care physician, we would look at the vital signs. We’d put our fingers on the wrist, count beats of the heart and breathing, and measure the pressure in the blood filled arteries. This would tell us some of the story, the introduction to the body.
A church secretary came in complaining of indigestion times two weeks….
In a far off land, there once was a young maiden who by chance came to a magic filled glade…
How does one do this in psychiatry though? We start with the vital sign of SLEEP.
A farmer in the vast expanse of corn fields went each night to his bed with determination, gritted teeth and racing thoughts. He worried over things that others thought were insignificant. He ruminated and chewed over information. Making decisions followed him around as if each were a crisis life balanced on. The farmer was awake in the night for hours before his mind turned off. And when he awakened, he was not refreshed….
Question: Are you comfortable with considering sleep as a symptom of brain health? When do you decide to look for medical reasons for poor sleep verses adjustment issues? Please tell us your story.
Self-care tip: Get to know your story to know better about your health.
- Sleep Related Blog Posts – A Reference Guide (friendtoyourself.com)
Organizing the “shelves” 🙂
Being a friend to yourself, comes just when we need it. When conflicts of interest seduce us into confusion, into late nights of activity; a talk perhaps or a project, a subject of interest, yahoo news perhaps – it is then that being a friend to yourself lovingly redirects our thoughts to the priority of sleep.
During sleep, our friend reminds us that we will heal. We will receive treatment for the stressful day, better than medicine. We will allow our broken neuronal connections to regenerate. Our pantry will restock for clear thinking, kind behaviors to ourselves and emotions with ingredients like cortisol, hormones and neurotransmitters. During sleep, our memories will find there place in the folds between our cells and plant.
When someone wants to talk to us, a conflict grows importantly, or when we mistake good parenting for enabling bad sleeping habits in our children, our friend, Me, says sleep. Clarity and inner congruence swath us then and we know that we can’t give what we don’t have. Tomorrow we can do those things. Now, it’s time to sleep.
To ally yourself with your friend, Me, keep a sleep journal for a week and see how it looks.
Self-Care Tip: Sleep. Be a friend to yourself.
- It’s Smart to Sleep (my.psychologytoday.com)
- Use a “Sleep Diet” to Ward Off Weight Gain [Health] (lifehacker.com)
- Sleep Part 2: What Sleep Deprivation Does to Your Body (paleoplan.com)
- Crap…. the weekend is over and i did not catch up on my sleep! (dudubeauty.wordpress.com)
- Brain scans show specific neuronal response to junk food when sleep-restricted (sciencedaily.com)
- The brain body connection – The first of the four major systems that maintain health (2012indyinfo.com)
- Sleep Deprivation Will Impact Your Ability to Turn Up At Work and At Home (innerwealth.me)
- Sleep Hygiene – my version (friendtoyourself.com)
- The 5 Most Common Mistakes Productive People Make (lifehack.org)