Self-Care Tip – Stay connected for your sake and for theirs.
We have all seen “kids” who stop talking. Driving by, their faces in the car window a little strained, their bodies postured away, maybe their hand fisted under their chin. Their parents lost their chance. Whatever they now want their kids to do, they’ve lost more than their authority. As have the kids. The kids lose out on having their parents voice in their lives.
It is the same with us in the world. When the world stops speaking to us, we lose our influence. When we stop speaking to the world, the world stops listening. We loose our voice. People won’t listen when we want them to.
Some of us may not be in that place now, but there will come a day when we want the world to care what we say. I’m not talking just about leaving a legacy, or having people care about what we’re going through when we are in crisis. This includes all the other times of life. The in-process times.
When we are angry at whoever graffitied our neighborhood. When we survive prejudice. When we share our child with the world. We want to have a voice.
And if we stop speaking, we will lose. If we don’t respect the opportunity to connect, if we don’t treat it as the treasure that it is, not only will the world miss out on the “Me,” we miss out on the world at large. It goes both ways.
We have a choice. Get friendly with yourself. Speak. Listen. Connect.
Question: When have you wanted to be heard? How does it affect your life to be connected? Please tell me your story.
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