A Note of Thanks For Collaborating

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June 30, 2013

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Hello,

I just wanted to send a note of “Thanks!!!!”
Thank you so much for including us in the care of your patients.  I hope we continue in your and their trust.

Practicing variety psychiatry brings me toward my quality of life experience and I am grateful.  I am not alone in this but blessed to be included in a fantastic team and community of treatment providers.

We believe passionately that our own quality of practice experience is the first step to engaging in a patient-doctor relationship.  Connection brings change and so our patients become a changing force in our lives with their courage.

Our patients work through multiple modalities, pressing toward healing and presence with electroconvulsive therapy, treatment-options awareness groups, medications, psychotherapy, and homeopathic remedies.  If there is more we might benefit from in practice, please let us know.  This is a life-journey we are honored to share.

Keep on.

Dr. Q

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Goodbyes Are A Way To Connect

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Self-Care Tip #184 – Respond to your goodbyes deliberately to be friendly to yourself.

One of the Regional Centers that I work at is closing their telemedicine clinic.  This means I’ve said goodbye to many beloved patients and their families, whom I’ve worked with since round 2003 I think.  Saying goodbye to people we respect and enjoy is not as casual as we stylin’ people make it look.

Two days ago I said goodbye to my girlfriend of around five-plus years and her family.  Moving far far away makes the flat world feel lumpy and luminous.  I now have all her leftover food and knock-offs she didn’t want to haul across the lengthening world to remind me that she is gone.

Watching parents and/or grandparents age is also an exercise in saying goodbye.  My parents have a hard time making it over to visit on week-ends for all the funerals they go to.  Their calendar sends over that whispering voice that they are growing old.  “Look,” it says.  “See me.  I am aging.  Time is connecting and taking me with it.” Even so, their essence holds its own, apart from Time.  That makes me feel more comfortable.  When that whisper gets louder I may respond differently, I can’t know until then.  But for now, this is good.

“Goodbye” is something that begs a response.  “Oh yes!  Goodbye!  See you later.”  I even say, “See you later” to people I know I have less than one percent chance of running into again.  The word calls to me and I respond.  The word implies a disconnection, but even so, beckons us to connect.  It spreads us over the space of our time shared and into the future apart.  Peanut butter and jelly, it sandwiches us up with the one who says “Goodbye” when we say back, “Until then.”

Today with these people and remembering all the ones I won’t get to see before my contract ends, I feel the pull to respond.  My response can be something deliberate.  It is another bit of something I get to choose.  I hope it will connect me.

Question:  How have you responded to the goodbye’s in your life?  How has it been a connecting force for you?  Please tell me your story.