Celine was made to fidget by something moving inside her. It tooled with her body while working her over.
Rich. We are all afraid. Knowing it and naming it is more than many of us have the spit to do. But not being named doesn’t make us more courageous.
I am afraid.
Celine wanted help and as her perception grew of what she was looking for, she knew. It was fast. Awareness appeared in progressive pictures into her own flip book.
Remember those flip books when we were kids like, Mickey Mouse tapping his foot as the pages sped by, leaning over to kiss Minnie? Celine’s flip book showed her that she felt unappreciated at work. She resented her authorities, lack of control and felt ashamed that she wasn’t acknowledged. Scenes in her life gave her the illusion of movement toward more than just danger though.
Being in fear is not in itself wrong or amoral. Sure as yams are sweet, it’s going to happen. We all have fear. Feeling afraid doesn’t mean that we are bad. It doesn’t confirm the accusation or shame. It doesn’t close on us. It just is. Fear. Celine’s illusion was that she was moving toward being the wrongness, being amoral, and being especially bad.
Ironically, Celine found some comfort in this and decompressed.
The medical reasons behind fear are of all varieties and certainly important, but this post isn’t about those. It’s about our flip books. Lick thumb and finger and let’s see what pictures we’ve sequenced into our own illusions. We all have a book. We all have fear.
Question: What does looking at your flip book do for your sense of value? Please speak.
Self-Care Tip: Remember what makes “Me” special by being present with fear.