Sorena wore a black knit scarf around a thick neck, folds between scarf and skin. She came in with reflective smooth skin and frozen brow. After many botox injections, she increasingly found it difficult to change her expression. People often accused her of not caring about difficult things they were disclosing, and she realized the issue was, she couldn’t move her forehead.
She had a lot of empathy and was frustrated that people didn’t understand this.
We pulled at this idea for some time, recognizing a tension unplugged for her with each injection, a relief she experienced at visceral level. She just felt like she had to get her injections, driven toward them, like a bee toward the hive.
At some level it takes courage to get through the day. She sees the effect. Despite the fact that she should take a break from Botox, she can’t stop and this feels frightening. She’s freezing her face. It’s a terrible thing to know she has to stop something she is driven to do. It’s really hard. She’s trying to get through each day.
I told Sorena, “What you do every day to deal with this is brave. It’s harder. You have so much strength. You are doing it. You are getting through.”
I’m considering starting a podcast, “The Heroic Patient.” What do you think?
I want to interview Sorena and others with heroic life journey’s for you to discovery, connect with, increase awareness of, and appreciate.
The idea is to interview a world-community patient who will tell their “story.” It enters through the physician’s office doorway and increases transparency.
Many in our world community do not have a great understanding of what a physician nor a patient do in this exchange. You may think, “Well, everyone is a patient so at some level they do.” But:
- How many, do you think actually go into a physician’s office?
- How many variety of physicians does any one patient see in a lifespan?
- How many get to tell their story?
- How many of us hear each other’s stories?
- How many of us understand how a physician solicits the details of a story so someone is “heard?”
If a patient were to learn the ‘behind the scenes,’ thought processes, interview techniques and analysis of the physician, would that be helpful to the patient? Would the doctor learn from this dynamic interplay, and would the interview process evolve and grow from this? How would this effect stigma of all variety? Who knows?
What do you think? Is there a need for the “Heroic Patient” Podcast? If so, what are your recommendations and opinions?
The idea is that we are designed for connection. It’s friendly, remember? 🙂
Self-care Tip: Get transparent to get connected! Be a friend to yourself.
Hi Dr. Q! I think your idea is perfect! There are public service commercials to encourage people to talk about mental health. The phrase “mental health” has a bad stigma and that needs to be redefined and your idea is a way to redefine that phrase. If a person can listen to your podcast and better understand the process and hear that people from all walks of life can come in for help, then it can show that person that they too can come in to see a psychiatrist or psychologist.
Hi Esther! Thank you so much for you reply! It encouraged me! Today in the San Bernardino community clinic I discussed this idea with my colleagues and they were very interested so maybe something will come of it! I hope so. I’d love to connect more with the world community and hear more world patient stories! Keep on!
Best wishes 2017
Thank you Carl! I love entering it with you here. Bless. Q