I read today on bipoblogger’s blog,
I am trying so hard to keep my head wrapped around keeping a hold on this broken heart/life balance/bipolar thing. It’s been complicated by stupid migraine headaches. It’s hard to make sense of things and to pay attention.
Today while I was waiting for my laundry to dry, I began writing some deep thoughts, deep like I didn’t want to deal with them. I basically wrote a page of self-help advice. I appreciate my stubbornness.
This sounds like a woman of courage doing it, taking accountability for where she is at, afraid maybe but pressing on to start over any time she chooses, demanding her freedom to self-care. Demanding freedom seems like an oxymoron but this is what is called for when we feel trapped.
I will add to this “answer” that self-care often seems like an oxymoron. Such as using the brain (the same organ that is diseased) to figure out what it’s behaviors and emotions mean or everything starts and ends with Me (when we know that there was a beginning before Me) – we see the weaknesses and the conflict and we say yes. I am an oxymoron. I am good and bad. I am healthy and ill. I am growing and dying. I am flawed but perfect. I’m sure you have more.
Demanding freedom is a basic tenet of self-care. We say that despite the limitations in our lives, in our decision-making, in our suffering or pleasures – despite all, I am free to do self-care.
Questions: How have you managed to demand your freedom to self-care? What oxymorons in your life are empowering you in your self-care? Please tell us your story.
- Introduction to Self-Care (friendtoyourself.com)
- Self-Care Works You, Pushes You, Tires You Out Until You Are Happily Spent On Your Friend – You (friendtoyourself.com)
- What Comes To Me From Others Is a Gift (friendtoyourself.com)
- Owning Our Choices Is Self-Care Even When It Feels Painful To Do (friendtoyourself.com)
- Self Care — What Do You Need? (joyofspa.com)