First, allow transparency.
Second, practice the Three C’s – I didn’t Cause this, I can’t Control this/him/her, I’m not responsible to Change it/him/her.
Third, use the Three C’s to practice presence with yourself and within the connection you seek – interpersonal or otherwise.
Fourth, move into pursuit of “Quality of Life” – what increases your quality of life experience.
Be a friend to yourself. It starts with Me.
Question: Does any of this feel kind and in the interest of you? and thereby, others? Please tell us your story.
What Was Missing Was You 2011/01/28