Thanks for the support everyone! Just throwing out a quick note to let you know that tonight went well. Smile.
Day: May 24, 2011
The Biopsychosocial Model for Where Emotions and Behaviors Come From
We are doing a narrative series on understanding where emotions and behaviors come from:
- Emotions Are Contagious
- Our own Emotional Junk
- Positive Emotions and Behaviors are Contagious Too
- Our Conscious Self is Our Board and Paddle at Sea
- (today’s post)
What we’ve covered so far in our series is that we know emotions are contagious. We know that if we take care of our own first, we might not be as “susceptible” to negative “contagion” in turn and perhaps, more available to giving and receiving positive “emotion-contagion,” so to speak. Further, we hope that if we do this, we might have the ability to choose to be with people we love even if they don’t do their own self-care and have that connection without personalizing what isn’t about us. Sigh. That is nice, isn’t it? …Yesterday took us out to sea away from our narrative for a bit, where we talked about the pleasure in engaging with what bits of biology are directly available to us and the relationship we maintain with the rest.
Self-Care Tip #271 – Use your biopsychosocial model as a tool to help your friend – You.
We return today to Rob and Yesenia. (Remember Rob?) Rob has shown us three important ways of considering where his emotions and behaviors come from. This is the biopsychosocial model of looking at our functioning in the context of illness.
- Rob’s biological factors include his own genetic primary illnesses as well as his genetic vulnerability to emotional milieu on his genes’ expression. It also includes Rob’s temperament.
Going toward what our temperament finds pleasure in will naturally bring more good things to/in us and others around us. (See blog post, Hear, Be Heard, Believe and Speak in Your Own Language.)
- His psychological factors include how he is or is not able to cope with his wife’s emotions and behaviors. There is obviously more involved but, snore. (Ahem. Oh. There I was.)
- Rob’s social factors include his wife’s emotions and behaviors. Yesenia’s untreated emotional illness gives Rob a difficult interpersonal relationship to contend with. …Where to start?
Questions: How has looking at your biopsychosocial self collectively as well as in parts been a useful tool for understand your own emotions and behaviors? Is it difficult to do this for yourself? If so, what limits you? Please tell me your story.